What a Wooden Bear Teaches Hands That a Screen Never Will

sensory learning for toddlers — two-year-old sitting in carved wooden bear lap drinking from pink sippy cup

There is a carved bear in a mountain town we pass through, taller than I am, sitting forward on its haunches with its front paws curled like armrests. It’s carved from a single trunk, stained a deep amber-brown, flanked by a pair of carved birch trees so the whole thing reads as a forest scene, … Read more

I Let Her Sit in the Mud. Here’s What I Talked Myself Out Of Stopping.

toddler sitting in muddy creek bank at Oak Creek Sedona, hands deep in red mud, yellow dress — letting children play in dirt

There’s a creek at Oak Creek, at the Red Rock Crossing in Sedona, Arizona, shallow and slow, with a soft muddy bank where the water goes still. Last April I took my daughter there on a whim, the day too good to stay inside, and within about ninety seconds she had lowered herself straight down … Read more

I Counted: A New Walker Falls About 17 Times an Hour On Purpose

Toddler learning to walk and falling — how babies learn locomotion

Seventeen. That’s the number I kept landing on when I went down a full rabbit hole about how toddlers learn to walk one night after my youngest had what felt like her four hundredth tumble before lunch. Seventeen falls per hour. And that’s not the number for a kid who is struggling, or tired, or … Read more